Women DO have different obstacles they have to overcome on their quest to attracting a true gentleman (I assume this is every woman’s goal, whether she acknowledges it or not). For example, society has programmed women to be extremely critical of their looks, and if this is not dealt with it could lead to serious repercussions in regards to a woman’s self-esteem and self-confidence. Men have to deal with this issue also, although to a lesser extent.

All women have an innate ability to spot a gentleman early on, which is why he is able to spark a gut-level attraction in most of the women he meets. Given that there are so few true gentlemen in society today, these men will have an extensive selection of women to choose from (adhering to the law of supply and demand). It’s every woman’s job to ensure she’s prepared when a man like this comes along. If she’s not ready for him, he’ll slip away, and that may be the last time she meets a true gentleman for the rest of her life.

Women, like men, need to invest in themselves before they can expect to attract an extraordinary mate. Women need to establish emotional stability, strong personal boundaries, a strong sense of self-respect, develop a thorough understanding of interdependent relationships, discover and commit to a life purpose, and develop a dynamic personality by adopting a continued commitment to personal growth. In addition to these examples, there are obviously many more ways that a woman can invest in herself. These are just a few examples! I hope these responses answer your questions.

Thank you so much for the comment!

Since you have written this article with tips for the gentlemen – or aspiring gentlemen – do you have any words for the ladies? Things that we should know about men (i.e.: how men and women think differently, how to spot a gentleman early on, etc?)